The Leading Woman and his Chaste Commitments....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Misc

Queens and knights

The Queens and knights game challenges each partner to demonstrate their Alpha/beta traits.  Every week a new trait is considered.  At the end of each week, both partners complete a short evaluation.  The weekly traits are (or sub  your own):

Queen
Week 1 - Demonstrates authority and privilege publicly and privately.
Week 2 - Makes executive decisions on all important matters.  Delegates trivial decision making to her knight and enlists his support where desired.
Week 3 - Loves and disciplines her knight.  Shows restrained approval of his performance.  Disciplines strongly and consistently for continued performance or correction.
Week 4 - Practices beauty, good health, and exercise.
Week 5 - Sexually adventurous and independent.  Enjoys sexual satisfaction  without regard to his or his knowledge.  Shows sexual leadership in all aspects including style, rewards, discipline, or otherwise.
Week 6 - Delegates and consumes her knight with both scheduled and on demand activities.

knight
Week 1 - Behaves with respect and a pleasing disposition at all times.  Is sociable under her direction, accepts humility, and is supportive of her.
Week 2 - Responsibly provides necessities and luxuries exclusive for her lifestyle.  Is supportive in her decision making and pleasantly respects her final say so.
Week 3 - Is romantic, loving, thoughtful, loyal, and humble.  Receives her discipline with respect and humility.
Week 4 - Is strong, fit, groomed, and well dressed, under her direction and  control.
week 5 - Affectionate, loving, unjealous, unselfish, sacrificial, with  lovemaking focused only on her pleasures.
week 6 - Prepares and maintains the home and family for her rest and pleasure.  Pleasantly serves, sacrifices, and obeys her direction without contempt.

The evaluation is completed weekly on an index card or small piece of paper and  includes an overall performance value from zero to ten along with  recommendations for improvement or recognition.  After the cards are completed,  they are exchanged with each other and discussed.  A tally of points is kept  over the course of six weeks.

The points are scored each week as follows:

Her rating:

10 - Superstar, in her element!
9 - Great. Could teach other households.
8 - Perfect.
7 - Made an effort, but missed the mark.
6 - Needs more assertiveness and practice.

his rating:

10 - Outstanding without anything else to be desired. 
9 - Pleasantly exceeded expectations with extra effort, but there are other  ideas to consider.
8 - Met the mark, but could have tried harder.
7 - Made an effort, but missed the mark.
6 - Made little effort and fell short.
5 - Unsatisfactory and full of excuses.
4 or less - Missed the point.  Unsatisfactory.

Prizes

Each point is worth a cash amount (e.g. $20) to her.  At the end of the six  weeks, he shops for her from savings.  Considering he's well trained in her  tastes and desires, she should have an extraordinary surprise!  However, each item that gets returned by her due to bad taste results in a week of chastity for him.  Each item that has to be returned by him due to improper fit, results in a day of chastity.

If he scores a perfect 60 at the end of the game, then he's allowed to spend a  cash amount (e.g. $5) in addition to hers how he wishes for the 60 points.  However, if his score is less than perfect, then for every point below 60, he  spends a week in chastity to figure out why he didn't get a 10 for the trait.  He stays in chastity a week for every point and must reach a score of 10 for the  trait (i.e. she scores him) before he's released after the period is up.

The Chastity Marble Game: 

Take a bowl and fill it with 30 to 100 black marbles.  Each time he serves her well with a good deed, she may add one white marble.  Every night (or week), she allows him to blindly draw from the bowl.  Should he draw a white marble, then she may allow him release from the chastity device and perhaps an orgasm. If he draws a black marble, then he stays in chastity until the next chance of drawing a white one.

Viagra & Levitra Games:

 If you've got the doc to prescribe your man an EDS treatment like Viagra or Levitra, then you’re in for a load of fun.  Just as a reminder though, always follow physician’s orders as prescribed, of course.

The great thing about Viagra is that a man’s dick will ONLY become erect on Viagra (properly given) when stimulated. It will NOT become erect without stimulating thoughts or touches. Even better, Viagra (and other EDS meds) will intensify the dick’s reaction to these thoughts or stimulating contact. With Viagra (proper dose given), it’s impossible for him to hide this. This is not just useful for him to get a hard on though. It’s actually wonderful to play a variety of orgasm denial games, build energy, punish, and even read his mind in truth or dare! Here’s a few fun games to play:

Use the Viagra anytime you wish to know what get’s him excited. For example, I was surprised to see my husband’s reaction to my orders during house duties. It just so happen that after I unlocked him for some sex with Viagra that I had him do the chores naked afterwards. I like to see his balls while cleaning the floors!  To my surprise, when I gave him orders, mr. dick stood to attention! It was so funny to see his embarrassment. I didn’t allow him to cover it up and had a blast the rest of the evening seeing what all got it up. I never enjoyed being a bitch so much while getting the house cleaned. Hard work (literally :-)).  Loose gym shorts without underwear will also do the trick, too.

Another nice use of Viagra is for a very simple punishment. Chastity and Viagra acts as a nice ball stretcher – Especially while I enjoy some tease and bitch! It’s fun to watch my balls glow red, get fuller, and beg for my mercy!!!

On the other hand, a nice reward for him is to simply cuff him behind, unlock the cock, while he gets to watch a slide show of me. He’s rewarded by being released, allowed to get hard, and see (but not touch) his Queen. Afterwards, just ice, repack, and lock – make certain he thanks you.

Another reward and energy builder is to unlock him, Viagra him, and allow him to satisfy you orally and with a strap on. Afterwards, stroke him just to precum.  Have him lick your fingers and explain he’s so close he can taste it – finger licking good. Keep up his commitments and he’ll get to soon (maybe). Now just watch those services and pampering improve!!!

A variation is to unlock, Viagra, cuff behind, and stroke him.  Tell him to let you know when he’s about to explode, then stop - when you wish. You can hold or set your shoe, dildo, or other object in front of his dick. Let him know if he cums, he’ll get to suck it down! Explain your allowing him a reward and to help him pick up his energy – not to release. Have fun :-O.  It’s a blast to just watch it throb for joy and see if he can hold it in (or take it back in, LOL).

If you’re curious if he’s attracted to your friends or simply likes serving them – have them over – right after he takes a Viagra. Leave him chaste or in loose pants.  Either way, you’ll find out.

Here’s the best one:

Give him a Viagra (either secretly or by direction), then have him prepare the usual punishment scene. For my servant, it’s on all fours, on the bed, with handcuffs strapped to the rails and balls bungee leashed to the opposite rail.  He prepares it and he’s ready for it at the directed time. Only this time I have a surprise – with the chastity lock off, I start by showing him a slide show on my laptop, with all lights off and only a bright light on his dick. Therefore, he doesn’t get any stimulation, except the slide show. I show him a repulsive picture, describe it and ask him if he likes it. I instruct him to ONLY answer YES or NO – NOTHING else. Then I check the real answer at the dick – it doesn’t lie – especially on a good dose of Viagra. It should remain calm or steady for this one (if not try again later). Next, I show him a sexy scene. Again ONLY YES or NO from him, while I describe it. Then I check the dick’s answer – it’s likely nodding up and down yes. His answer had better be the same as the dick’s. I’ll then ask him to answer in ONE word what he likes about it, then maybe again. At this point he’ll get nervous – he knows he can’t lie and he can’t restrain his dick’s response to his thoughts and attractions! If the dick responds (pulses or stands) then there’s no denying he’s hot for it! If the dick answers yes to anything other than me, or even worse he lied, then I visit his ass end for correction. With a pink or red marker in front of him, I’ll take one and explain this is a problem and write in large the problem on his ass (red’s a big problem, pink is needs improvement). I then simply use the crop until I don’t see the problem anymore :-) .... the color of his ass matches the color of the problem! Now, I also use the balls too. If he responds with anything more than YES or NO or ONE word when immediately asked, then he gets an instant message to the balls with a crop slap (it goes straight to the brain - fast). He should always answer IMMEDIATELY as instructed and only as instructed. Don’t allow him to try to explain or make excuses. If his dick is throbbing and it’s not for me, then he’s got a problem on his ass and balls. I also don’t allow him to respond in any way to an ass cropping – moaning or other sounds are NOT allowed. Otherwise, he’ll try this to attempt to deter his deserved correction. I quickly crop the balls once and that convinces him.

Next it’s time to move on to more suspicious slideshows, but sometimes I have to cool him down with ice in a condom or attach an ice bag/bucket, etc. and come back later. After he’s cooled off, I present the next pictures and describe them – in my case, the apartment receptionist! (it’s been shocking to also see his reaction to skinny asian women, and large cocks that I thought he'd find repulsive - wtf!) Although maddening, I need to know where he is weak (or lying) so I can control his issues and ensure he's chaste! He wears the ink of his problems on his ass as a reminder.

Once I know what else he obviously fantasizes about (and would otherwise jack off to), then I repeat his punishment sessions with continued ass and ball croppings until mr. dick doesn’t like the receptionist anymore – IT EVENTUALLY WORKS too. But, when the dick answers yes and stands to attention, I shift his hips so it sticks straight out or up. Then I hang a necklace at the base of the dick and proceed with ass end correction until it falls off (the necklace or his ass, LOL). I slap his ass enough he still has something to remind him the next day – nice, red, and hot. 

When finished, I simply lay the cuff key at his hands – He’s responsible for cleaning my bedroom and toys. I usually have him sleep on the couch for however long the red sharpie stays on his ass. It’s interesting how well he cleans his ass now!

I’ve found these sessions can last quite a while, so it’s best to have a good supply of ice while he cools to the NO level. Also, if you find the Viagra is tapering off, I’ve found an ass plug applies just the right amount of pressure to keep the dick answering questions :-).

The great thing about Viagra is that it intensifies a dick’s response to arousal.  It will ONLY get erect by sight of stimulating images, verbal suggestions, arousing thoughts, etc. If he sees images he’s attracted to and hears suggestions that brings up images he already has in his mind, then with Viagra, he won’t even be able to hide the initial throbs of attraction. Instruct and ensure he continues to look at the slide show – don’t let his eyes off of it. If his dick begins to throb within a few minutes of a simple suggestion or benign image, then you can know for sure, no matter what he said, he’s attracted and ALREADY has fantasies inside. If he actually appears confused (and you believe it), he may not even realize what all his subconscious desires are, since he may also try to suppress them. However, a physical response is a true indication that either he's vulnerable to opportunity or that he works to suppress the desires. If it’s a problem, YOU CAN control it and even CORRECT it with repeated sessions, awareness, and chastity protection. It’s been very rewarding to guide my husband’s desires to only focus (and respond) upon the ONE who has the power to provide him pleasure when earned.

Other games include Viagra, restrained, with chastity removed, then showing him a variety of pics of my choice. When he only becomes erect for me, then he can have relief after he has otherwise earned it. He should only signal thought for who can provide him relief.  If he doesn't then relock and punish. If you need answers to questions, just keep cropping until the right ones come out....It works.

Blindfolded Evening

Make up a blindfold for your man. Also, have some comfortable ropes with which you can secure his hands to the bed, his legs, or something. Now, while he is blindfolded, you can begin to tease and deny him. Be creative and think of ways that he will enjoy too. You may wish to gain his commitment to certain activities for the week or question him about some suspicious behavior.  It's incredible what a little KY and hand strokes can persuade him to commit to  - especially when I stop.  At the end you may wish to allow him a sexual release, or maybe he will have to get back into his chastity device and wait until the next time. Your call!